The Stay-or-Go Workbook · $27

You already know how to make a pros
and cons list. It's not working.

A values-first decision tool for the question you keep circling at 2am: do I stay in this role — or do I finally go?

Get the Workbook — $27

Instant download · Yours to keep · Built on the method I use with private clients

Stay
and make it right?
or
Go
and start again?
Sound familiar

You've run the numbers. Twice. Ten times.

The list comes out "stay." Then Sunday night arrives anyway, and the weight settles back in. So you run it again — and land in the exact same place, no closer to a decision you actually trust.

Here's why it keeps happening: a pros and cons list weighs everything equally. Salary and commute get the same ink as whether the work still means anything to you. And it treats the decision as if it's about the job.

It isn't. It's about whether the job fits you — your actual values, not the ones on your leadership profile. And you can't answer that with a spreadsheet.

The real problem

It was never your analysis.
It was the framework.

Most people make this decision with two broken tools: the pros and cons list, which weighs everything the same — and other people's opinions, which weigh their values, not yours.

The Stay or Go Workbook replaces both with a single filter: your values. The same one I use with senior clients paying by the hour — structured so you can run it yourself, tonight.

What's inside

A method, not a pep talk.

You work your specific situation through five sections until the answer is clear enough to act on.

Section 01

The Values Filter, applied to your decision

Score your situation across the three dimensions that actually decide it — Values, Viability, and Velocity — and see where it truly stands instead of how it feels at 2am.

Values · Viability · Velocity — the 3V method, scored
Section 02

The Red Flags check

The warning signs high performers are especially good at talking themselves out of noticing. Named plainly, so you can't un-see them.

Section 03

The private gut-check

Including the one question that cuts through every rationalization you've built: "Would I choose this if no one would ever know?"

Section 04

Your Values-in-Action map

Exactly where your current role honors each of your values — and where it quietly violates them. This is usually where the fog lifts.

Section 05

The Final Decision Tool

Stay · Go · Negotiate · Get more information — plus the one-sentence "why" you can actually stand behind when someone asks.

Honest fit

Who this is for.

Built for you if…

  • You're a tech or sales professional, mid-career to senior
  • You look successful on paper and feel the gap underneath
  • You're weighing a role that's "fine" against a move that's uncertain
  • You want a decision you chose — not one that happened to you

Not for you if…

  • You want someone to just tell you what to do
  • You're looking for motivation, not a method
  • You've already decided and want permission
  • The honest answer scares you more than staying stuck
The offer

Walk away with a decision you can
defend in private.

Not one you can only explain to other people. A clear read on your situation, and a next step you made on purpose.

$27
The Stay or Go Workbook
  • The full 5-section decision method (instant download)
  • The 3V Values Filter, scored for your situation
  • Red-flags check + the private gut-check
  • Values-in-Action map + Final Decision Tool
  • Yours to keep and re-run on the next decision
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